my wife is the same way, asking me daily if everything is ok and just waiting for me to say no so she can overreact about it! ugh, it makes it hard to not be 'normal' in situation without the emergency lights flashing and someone swooping in for the rescue lol.

We are really lucky to have that though. We have support and sometimes it's just what we need. I know for me, i know that I shouldn't take that for granted cuz there are times that I really need someone and i'm too afraid to say anything. in times like this, it is a lifesaver. literally lol.