Since I dragged (according to my husband) to our beautiful little hobby farm from the city several years ago... He has begun to blame me on everything that goes wrong (economy, travel, money, etc.)! Maybe he is right, but in past year this is always an issue when he comes home Not only do I need an hour lecture, but so does my 16 year old daughter which is unacceptable! He has never really hurt us physically... other than an occasianal headlock - and banging one of us to the fridge door . I called the cops then... not to mention throwing kitchen knifes... well, at least then I received a new front door. I believe he is super jealous person... and now somehow his dissulotional thinking has major issues. According to "him" this year, he always wants to trade some of my happiness. For example; get rid of the horses and I will let you keep the pool. Get rid of the goats, and I will let you keep the dogs.... He feels these are all distractions, and yes... they are... but these are my sanity! Any thoughts welcome.