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Originally Posted by autotelica
I agree with Asia. Who goes around talking about who-sleeps-with-who in casual conversation? That's someone I would be wary of. Even if they have the basics of the story right, who's to say this person isn't exaggerating? But I wouldn't necessarily trust that they even have the basics right. I mean, how in the hell would they even be in the position to know all the sordid details?
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I agree with this, and I'd go even farther. Why on earth would you assume that what you heard, which is really just gossip, pure and simple, is actually true either in part or in total?
If I heard something or thought I knew something about my T based on incomplete information (which most information is), I would talk to him directly about it. I would say concretely what I heard or what I believed, and ask him if it was true or not. I would not believe in gossip hook, line, and sinker, as it seems you are inclined to. For cripe's sake, just ask her about it.