Wow, Blue,
I am so sorry. As you know, I am not the best person to give work advice, since I can't seem to make myself want to go, but I feel so sad for all you are dealing with! My first thought was that you need to milk the company dry before she does-see no business sense on my part.
The posts about seeing a lawyer make the most sense to me. You are so strong, Blue, that I know you will work through this, but meanwhile I am so sorry for your depression and pain.

I wish the screwed up shower head was the only bad thing you had to deal with today!
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