Hi Sally, I am not judging T or anyone who cheated as everyone has their reasons for doing the things we do, but its like you said I feel hurt by anyone who mentions cheating or hurting their spouse on purpose. I wish i didn't feel so moved by this but I do and it seems quite ironic really that that I go to therapy becuase my partner cheated on me and hurt me so badly and then the T does the same thing...It just doesn't feel right to take advice or guidance from her anymore. I know she is not a bad person in fact she has been nothing but nice to me and been a very good T. She is trying lots of different things with me, this week we are trying two new things and I was looking forward to it but now i don't want to see her.
I believe what this person told me because she sees her husband and what it has done to him and the other family that was involved and hse said its so sad.