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Originally Posted by Rose Panachée
I am sorry this happened. I struggle with trust issues, so if I learned of something like this right out of the gate, I don't think I'd be able to go back. Nothing to do with T. Not her fault. My issue.
The situation, though, clearly put you in an uncomfortable position, so I guess you have two choices (1) go to your next appt and bring it up and see what happens or (2) find a new T and terminate.
A gal that I've known for 40+ years is a T. We've known each other since we were born and are like sisters. I cannot imagine (after all I know) that she could/would ever be qualified to be a T, but she is also human and like everyone else...
...it's her JOB to put on her job face when she is in session. That is what she is trained for. And she has her own T.
Unfortunately, though, nobody trains us for Life itself. With all it's reality, messiness, other people, parents, siblings, drama, etc.
Whatever you decide, Hon, do what is best for you  |
T's are human and are entitled to make mistakes; it probably makes them better t's. I have decided not to say anything to her about what I know as I dont want to hurt her by bringing it all up again for her and besides itsa not any of my business what she did in her past.
She is a good t and thats all that matters, this is my issue not hers, its something I have to deal with not her. She has probably felt all of her remorse and pain and I don't see any sense in bringing it up for her.