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Originally Posted by SallyBrown
 I didn't see you as judging her, I just didn't want to speak for you ("She's not judging!") when I wasn't 100% certain.
I definitely get why you don't want to see her again, and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. You know what you can and can't handle.
But I do wonder if hearing her express how much she regrets it would be a little bit healing for you? I'm not sure, I'm just throwing it out there. There is also the risk that she will not say that, and I know that might be overwhelming.
I'm sorry this is all so painful. |
Sally, i am sorry it sounded as though I was saying to you I wasn't judging as I know you dint accuse my of judging you defended me and I appreciate that.
It is actually healing just hearing how sorry and understanding you are. Your H is one of the lucky ones, as all I wanted from my ex was an apology and admittance of what she did but she gave me neither and denied everything, I seen an order on her credit card bill for flowers and I checked her email and there was a message from interflora with this girls address and a message saying I love you from my ex. It broke my heart into a million pieces. If she had of said I am sorry I never meant to hurt you, all she said was I am not sorry for what I did because she knew it would hurt me.