Thanks but actually it helped me get out of relationships that were not working. I don't consider it a mortal sin for me (I have things that do constitute relationship mortal sins - just that affairs are not a huge deal to me personally. I am not saying they should not be for others.). One affair situation hurt me more than the other affair situation did. I don't think having an affair means the other person does not care about me - again that is just me. And sometimes it would mean that. Other times it means more about other things than me.