O, Blue Inanna, you definitely hit on something too and I havent mentioned this anywhere so its purely insight on your part! I am very concerned about my son's life choices. He has only held down a job for less than a month this yr. He had a good job that he was very successful at for almost 4 str8 yrs before this. He is hyper-intelligent but I cant get him to go back to school either. Right now he is a big big trigger for me! In fact, he lack of wking is why he and his wife had to move in with us. (She is a nurse at a nursing home and very successful at her job and school...beginning to wonder why she puts up w his lazy *****)