I think it is based off the client/situation. What works with some will make the situation way worse than another. U know? Like for instance, when I am hurting, I was someone to tell me it will be ok, comfort me. Another might want to be left alone. U know? I think it's up to the t to make a judgement call, and sometimes they don't make the right ones. But I rly xont think it's ovr who is more "deserving" than another