Hi, My 35 yr old son is bipolar. My husband and I are 70 yrs old and take him to all his appt's with his psychiatrist and counselor. He has been doing quite well except for his anger towards us. He screams at us when we say something he doesn't like. There has been no physical abuse but he frightens me. We walk on eggshells. He doesn't live with us, but we pay for his apartment, utilities, etc. We love him but hate his rampages.
Last week I left his counselor a voice message telling her of his anger and asked her to help with the issue. My husband told me that doing that was a mistake. Will his therapst tell my son about my voice message? If she does, now I'm really afraid of what he will do. Is she obliged to tell him about it?