9874, I am sorry if my comment in my initial response caused you any bad feelings.

Have you checked out the site I suggested? If they can not help you, they may be able to point you in the right direction. I will also keep looking and let you know if I happen upon any other sites that may help.

As you can see the subject of homosexuality illicits strong opinions in a lot of ways. Please do not be put off if you come across those strong opinions. They are just that "someone else's opinion".

Take care.