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Originally Posted by button30
Thank you Bunny, I think for my therapy to work i am going to have to trust T, but the thing is I don't know just yet that I can trust her, I have my next session this week and I am not looking forward to it. i think I will just ask her straight out, what she thinks of people who have affairs or would that be too direct?
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It's not "too direct". Actually, it's not direct at all. It's quite passive-aggressive, if you ask me. This would be a way of testing your T, testing the waters to see if T "passes"....but honestly, it makes it incredibly difficult for your T to respond to.
Being direct would be exactly what some have said here - telling her that you heard something about her personal life and that you are uncomfortable with it...and that you're struggling with what to do with that information. Let T help guide you through it. Starting with honesty and directness will help.