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Leed · Sep 18, 2012, 10:12 AM

She SHOULDN'T tell him, but how else will she know about his rages? He will know that you told her about it. So unfortunately you're "doomed." LOL

I don't blame you for being afraid, but I think it was a good move for you to tell the therapist. She needs to know how far this has gone. She needs to get him to acknowledge that he abuses you and your husband, and then work on that. How soon she can get any results is beyond me. Perhaps she can get him inpatient for more intense therapy. It sounds to me like that is REALLY what he needs -- to go into the hospital for awhile until he can get these rages under control.

I'm certainly glad he doesn't live with you. I know you don't want to walk on egg shells, as that's a horrible way to live. I had to live like that with my ex-husband for 26 years -- no fun. I just hope he takes his meds like he's supposed to. Keep us posted, will you please?? I'd REALLY like to know how YOU and your HUSBAND are doing and that you're SAFE. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee