Realistically, I would pay off my bfs mortgage so we could finally get a place better suited for my family (especially my son) where we can have a yard and I can use my green thumb to grow food for my family and actually compost and have a place to feel the grass under my feet (aside from the grass on the parkways in our not-so-desirable neighborhood. A place for my dog and son to play would be wonderful.

The dream: With extra money I think I would go on a retreat-I have always wanted to go to India- or Thailand. I would love to go to an ashram and have some time that is 100% dedicated to myself and my spiritual growth. (I feel selfish saying I would do something just for me but this is fun time, right?