Hi carebirdy.....Just adding my 2 cents, as I agree with the other posters' thoughts. I would definitely be hurt by this person's words, and it would make me wonder about her true intentions. One thing I've learned....and it's been a long, painful lesson.....is to listen to my heart when someone is showing ~"telling me" me who they are, and it's just not feeling right. I have made the mistake many times of ignoring these signs, because I just don't want to see them.....and it has never ended well for me. You ~we all deserve to be cared about in a sincere way. Just be careful with your . Hugs ~whimsy