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Originally Posted by button30
Hey Lola, I am going to stay with her because she might be just what I need to get over all of this, she might be able to help me more then I have been helped. I am afraid this will trigger me a lot but I am going to bring up the fact of how much it all hurt and take it from there. I cannot confront her just yet, its too early in our relationship.
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IMHO - you just need to tell her like it happened... It's not like you were looking to find this out...it just happened, i live is a large small town and I hear things about people too... it happens
I agree with Hankster on this... this could be huge in your Therapy, although i can also see the fear of telling her you know...but a lie does not a firm foundation for a therapeutic relationship make.
you:
So T I ran into so and so and they said they knew you and mentioned this......
I don't know what to do with this........ can you help me here, T.