I think this part is kinda of funny. Not your feelings or reactions, just the wording. It is kinda like you wanted to send the vm then hide, and she caught you?! the "GRRR" was the icing on the cake for me. I was doubled over laughing....

I also think it is a good thing she caught you, IMHO you need to talk about this. One of the great things about t to me is I can basically act how I want. (within reason) and it is accepted. I don't have to apologize, I usually, like you have to explain why, but not apologize.

your t sounds like a keeper. seem to me, she knows you very well.

I hope this helps and not hurts. sending safe hugs