Well, I know I'm not alone! I have been with my husband for 13 years and less then a year ago discovered his porn addiction that has been going on for 20 years. Up until then any time I would bring something up about it he would lie and deny and tell me I was crazy and making things up in my head. Until one night I found the proof and he couldn't lie about it anymore. So in the last 8 months I have gone through hell, he moved out for a week then moved back in he was going to counseling and recovery classes (which he quit less then halfway through) he has sworn on our children he would stop. So after catching him several more time during all of that and after I now realize this is something he will never stop, he continues to choose the porn over me and our family, so I have decided enough is enough! A woman/wife can only take so much, yes I understand they have this addiction because of this deep pain from the past but what about our pain from the past and the present? What about the deep depression and suffering they have caused us with this abuse?