I saw this on the couch. one of my mother's favorite sayings in italian when I was growing up was to piss and moan about what a huge burden, an impediment, children were. I wrote in another thread about how I don't even let her answer her door at her new place, which could get her fined, because it's so automatic for me to jump up and "do" for her. bs, man, bs. you're not much of a thread starter yourself really, are you? i'm glad your T is keeping you at 2x. you have to take care of this, cos otherwise you're just gonna burn out like me - you'll deplete yourself, have nothing left to give. once you collapse flat, it is really hard to reverse the process. yes, like BOOBS!