When I used to do the socialising thing back in the day I remember one trick that I found out, by accident. The less info you offer about your life, the more they want to know! Its kinda like playing hard to get in the dating world. My issue was I really DIDN'T want them to know and the more I withheld information on my life, the more they pushed to find out about it. To the extent that eventually they were in my face DEMANDING that information! So yeah.. just something you may want to try.