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Old Sep 18, 2012, 10:43 PM
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions View Post
I certainly understand where you're coming from....I've been with my T for about 3-1/2 years. And lately, when I've been really, really down, he'd say things like, "Don't start feeling sorry for yourself"...or something along the lines of "there are people out there worse off than you"....

Thanks for minimizing my feelings, T!

Over the last few weeks, we've addressed this somewhat. But it takes me sooooo long to express my feelings...especially when they're difficult feelings. I told T last week, in recapping those couple of awful sessions, that I felt rejected by him. He asked me where I wanted to take it. I said I wanted to take a nap...and changed the subject.

I hope you decide to talk to your T about this.
No way your T says that!

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