Thanks. I don't like what you have suggested but no one ever said you have to like what everyone says. The truth does hurt and that may well be the only way to strighten this out. From your experience I know you have seen more than me and I can respect that. I know you are trying to help and that may be just what needs to happen. I may need to try a trial sepertion but right now I an not overly fond of the idea of that. I am not angry with you and I respect you opinion very much. I look forward to the knowledge you bring to the subject and I hope this responce didn't come off as nasty because I never ment it that way. I'm hurt, afraid, and unsure on top of tired(it's 12:00 am) and I hope I didn't say anything out of place. Please keep me in your prayers. I would certinly like your continued support.