Can you take the "no nonsense" approach with your therapist (similar to how she is like that with you?)? Like you said you wanted to tell her to get off it... what if you said it to her? she might like that If she is doing the "treat others like you would want to be treated" thing then maybe she would like you to just say it bluntly to her face. If you aren't that way naturally then I guess it would be tough, but I find if you just blurt it out like its a fact, some people really appreciate it. Like me! haha