there is one thing i would suggest to you Ohlostme, buy a cheap security camera, you can get them for next to nothing these days! and install it so its overlooking your driveway (or whever you park your car) or maybe face it into your garden where you say your neighbours throw diapers into your garden, and if yuo catch it on tape, go to the police with it and they will have to do something then.

its a sure-fire way to sort the situation out, and you can buy security CCTV cameras for about £15 over here in engalnd, so i dont know how much tht converts to in dollars.

not only that, it would give you peace of mind too.

as for your old company, try not to take it personally, they are just trying to save money (what company doesnt) so they are not targetting you, and dont worry about ringing up the company, ring the DSL provider directly, they can disconnect it for you, you dont need to go through the company.

good luck with it all.

and im sorry to hear about your dream of moving to the country, sometimes these things in life happen, if you still have that dream, try again. make a very calculated move. its no harm in trying, i always believe people should live their dreams, otherwise, whats the point of dreaming if thats all they stay....dreams.