For what its worth I brought it up with my Male T ( it was really hard , i just spit it out and didn't look at him ) and he's "no touch"... but when I explained my feelings on the situation , he assured me that exceptions can be made when needed.

I feel like my skin is rice paper thin and the moment someone touches me it tears a hole and all the emotions come flooding out. Without touch I am able to contain it within the paper thin confines of myself.