I agree that this is something you should ask her directly. Don't make up a scenario in which it happens to someone else. That's lying to your therapist, which would be really counterproductive. Plus, if you did that, it's entirely possible that your T will see right through it anyway. Most of them aren't stupid.

Talk to her. I know it's difficult to ask for what you want. With your background, I would guess that asking for what you want or need hasn't been a positive experience. Trust her to do what's right for you and to explain why if what she thinks is right isn't the same as what you want.