Thank You Leed. I needed to hear from you and know that I was not to harsh. Both of my kids are in counseling. The damage has been done and things are changing for the better around here. He actually leaves them alone for the most part. He has the average parent/child type of discipline now and they don't see anywhere near as much ugliness from him now. It's not all pretty but it's a huge change. I glad they have there own T's. It is a shame that I have to say my child has/needs a T. But it is a blessing to have the help we need. Lots of folks know now and are looking out for our saftey.