Boy can I relate to that, When my mother was alive, she would call be at least 5 times a day and because she had issues herself I couldn't deal with her in a sensible way becasue I myself was having my own issues which also included her. She went to doctors to many of them inlcuding drug abuse and who knows what else. But when she got I made a sort of peace with her and she died two mdays later. What I am trying to say is maybe she tries to hard to gain acceptance from you. So be easy ewven knwoing it is never going to be easy.