Im there with ya brother! My wife did the same thing a few years ago and unfortunately I retaliated. Tried to work through it and we just didn't make it. She moved out about two months age and my divorce was final last Tuesday. 9-11. Lol. It was the very tough thing to go through!! Now that it's over things are leveling out and I see lit at the end of the tunnel. I realize that my life and my future is my own now and it's up to me where it goes. You also will have the opportunity to make a positive turn and I'm sure there will be someone out there that will be just right for you! You just have to be strong and believe in yourself!!