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Sep 19, 2012, 09:15 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I know it's hard to get past the pain of a bad relationship, especially if you've been cheated on. It's hard to trust any new person because you're always thinking that this one is going to do the same as the one before.  But you must remember that if you have NO PROOF, and there aren't any mysterious disappearances, or strange phone calls on his cell phone, or weird text messages, then there's no need to doubt him. Surely, it's going to take time, and you really should talk this over with your new love and hopefully he'll understand your reluctance to trust. With any luck, he'll be patient too.
If this gets too invasive in your relationship, I'd advise seeing a therapist to find out why you're so reluctant to trust. Perhaps there's something in your past that you've blocked out, that needs to be worked on. A good therapist can help you with that.
I wish you the very best. God bless and please keep us posted as to what happens. Hugs, Lee 
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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