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We'd try to handle it privately. And of course, neither person in the dispute would want the other person to talk about it with the shared friends out of fear it would be misconstrued and that they wouldn't be able to defend themself.

It's the same thing here, if you look at it that way.

If we stick to the guidelines, we should all be ok. Hang in there

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YES, I agree and the word is "IF" -

If others did not talk about it with their group of friends and IF others followed the guidelines.....
I guess IF is a big word that can make all the difference.

and THANKS..... I am hanging in there.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -