Hi Toya and Vales....
Both of you have had a hard time. I know how painful rejection is from a loving partner with whom you have placed all your energies and devotion, only to be rejected. Valex...keeping busy is one thing; there is also time needed for quiet reflection, feeling the pain, and giving yourself time to heal. Keeping oneself busy with distractions can sometimes onliy mask the pain of healing, with which you must deal eventually.
Healing thoughts,
Patty