It was my friend that Ozzie made the comment on. And, Ozzie was of great support. I realize you weren't feeling well at the time and did things you normally wouldn't have done. But being the best friend of a person who had been cheated on. I see her pain and heartache. She is going through hell. Much like the hell you went through. I agree with all the posts. It might be better to let sleeping dogs lie. And people do learn from their past mistakes. Unfortuneatly for you this was a very tough life lesson. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that you can learn to love another. You will be a better parnter because of your past. I'll say a prayer for you.

"you only have one chance to make a first impression"