I was lucky even with my mum tellin me how i would regret it in later life she was there 4 me untill she found out that i had lost 2 b 4 my oldest son but i still got it in the neck that i was doing wrong i now have nothin 2 do with her & my boys dont even kno who she is if they c her in the street but thats up 2 her she can always get in touch with them