How did she respond to your feedback?

Some of those things seem possible to change, others less so. I suspect she will never become super-organized, but it is easy to shut off a phone (if she is willing to do so). Being an advice-giver can be tweaked to some extent, but some T's are more into advice than others. Or some are that way at the beginning and then snap out of it.

You haven't invested much time though, so it is pretty easy to find someone else new if that's what you want.

Best,
EJ