some people just cant handle things, and then those true friends of urs is always there when it is possible. sometimes u have to take it as it is, and other times i owe apologies/ amends to others because i was in the wrong. just an example! not saying u owe them that. but i mean if u feel like u do then when ur ready or when the time is right u know then she can accept or not and yall both can move on from there. just dont let it eat u up on the inside and if its is talk to someone who u really trust and they might have a suggestion or been through the same thing. they might be able to help, and if they cant well atleast u have someone to talk to and not keep it bottled up on the inside. i hope maybe this helps u in some way.