It sounds to me like your Wise Mind is warning you about this guy.

I can understand how you may be feeling guilty and confused whether or not your reaction is "right" ~ but do listen to your Wise Mind. It's telling you that something funky is going on. If you do decide to meet him in person, do so slowly and very carefully. Like Rose, I would advise you to meet him in public settings several times if you do decide to see him in the real world.

Gentle hugs sent your way ~ best wishes!