if you don't have children with this man than there's no good reason to be speaking with him. you're enabling him by responding. please don't respond next time--just come here and post what he's texted to you instead and don't participate in a convo with him. it's not good for you, either, to be communicating with him and it's definitely not good for his current wife and child. sorry if this sounds harsh but please cut ties with him. it's best for everyone involved. I'm wishing you strength! take care!