I would like to share something...personal experience...

Some of those that I've "had words with" have become my strongest support and friends. That's not hope. That's not talk. That's fact. When all was said and done, something brought us together in a stronger, deeper level with a respect that is mind-boggling.

Just sharing...

If more had been said, more hurt words, more hurt feelings, more people involved, it probably never would have happened as it has. In other words, due (in most part) to the guidelines, the damage was contained and I'M SO THANKFUL FOR THAT NOW.

Just sharing...

There are many things that can hurt and upset in the moment due to feelings involved, but the outcome can be worth it if it doesn't go too far and we respect our fellow members.

Des,

I hope that when you feel ignored, you can look back to times that you knew you weren't and grab hold of that. I hope all of us can look to what we gain and the "average" experience and expectations that have kept us here and move toward that place again.

KD