I'm really sorry i was harsh with you hun I really really am obviously that is just a huge trigger with me it makes me no better then you, I find that I usually go off and walk away to not go further. It is a sore subject with me I have a very angry little boy and a hard time being single after so long. HOWEVER I will honestly admit I am glad he did what he did because obviously he really did do me a huge fsvor. My only request from you is IF you do it again maybe it is time to discuss divorce.