<font color="blue">Yes, Rhapsody I agree.... now that can be frustrating... while someone is attacking (side swiping, inuendo etc) and you are told to ignore them... while they continue to denegrate you in the thread you are no longer reading... in that case, if someone doesn't have "their friends" watching their back, it will continue unmercilously,imo.

Personal attacks are not allowed, but they happen, it's when they are done intentionally and not edited that can also be frustrating? Taking lightly what another member thinks is important, another way to do an end run around for attack, is also unfortunate.

What I don't understand, well yes, I do...because of human nature? is that it doesn't take anything away from me to give support to another person, it doesn't take anything away from me for another member to post to others what they will, it just seems that it bothers some members if they aren't the ones receiving the support.

We all need support here in one fashion or another...some of us are more vocal about what we need than others. It can be frustrating when a member NEEDS support but no one knows it...and then it becomes a huge issue here... I assure you I am doing all I can to give support. I think most members are also doing their best.

Courtesy should be common, imo... but the use of "should" there is obviously glitched. Courtesy has to be learned.. and yes, we are all learning here, as I said. Why the cold shoulder, why the backbiting?

Why can't we all just get along???? Oh, yeah... human nature.