Hi SCGirl4Life - i would seriously consider getting the authorities involved - now that he is contacting members of your family it suggests that he probably isn't going to back down. Do you want to resume the relationship? If not and you desire a clean break then you will need to tell him to stop contacting you completely - requesting that he calm down with messaging you etc. won't quite get the point in cross in my view. This man literally ditched you before a wedding - he didn't discuss his feelings, he just broke things off and then after a while bombarded you with messages and now won't stop - does this really sound like someone you would want to be married to? Just a thought...I hope your situation improves.