Quoting Ozzie: "I also think that it isn't important how you compare to others, but whether you are comfortable with you."

I also think that you have misunderstood what you've heard and read. I'm still of the opinion that you are stuck in the "victim role." More than anything else, that's what you need to work on.





<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>