<font color="blue">We can't control what another person posts here... lol and that can be frustrating..and I think the theme of the thread???? Included in that are the ppl who know you... and go to bat for you. That isn't going to stop, I think.

Sometimes when another member does come back with a response, clarification is made and it becomes a non-issue, imo.... whereas if the person who felt attacked responded, it might become a heated issue. Having a mediator, or an interim member help out is what happens here. The more active a member is here, the more "friends" they can make, and the more likely someone will post a response on their behalf.

IMO What is implied are that there are "cliques" here... and imo, that belief in itself can cause frustrations.