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and have gotten some PM's on this telling me what group to watch out for. I looked them up and sure enough.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Ok...but do you realize that by that very action, you could be considered in a "clique" by your own standards?

Do you really think you are in one? Well, I have many members here who do stand up for me, and for many others, just like whomever sent you that PM was trying to do the same with you... knowing what your strengths and weaknesses are...

these types of interactions are normal behavior for human beings... and as you can see...you can't control others... you would have to have everyone one ignore and block all PMs and..then ???? Did you solicit that PM? I doubt it.

It's isn't wrong behavior here, imo.... unless it is flaming or passing along untruths. I guess that could be frustrating too, if you didn't see things the same as they do...

I'm sorry you don't seem to be comfortable with regards to support in the realm of friendship... but sit tight, you can be.. here at PC.

Many ppl come in very defensive because of treatment on other sites (thus my earliest comment) but this really is a support site. Being a friend and giving/receiving support are not mutually exclusive.