Hi gtrplayr,

I just saw this posting from you. I am still having difficulty with the layout of the forum and even finding my previous posts. I really can't take the nagging either. On top of this my husband has some kind of undiagnosed disorder also. He cannot write out a check unless I stand there and tell him line for line what to write. Then I have to do the same for the envelope. I don't nag him so I wish he wouldn't nag me, but it's going to be an unfulfilled wish I believe. He has told me several times that someone said behind every nagging spouse is a spouse who needed to be reminded repeatedly or something like that, lol.