Hamster this guy and I have talked marriage and kids and exchanged "I Love yous" but he's married too. He actually took the step and separated from his wife. But he is still in counseling. The crazy thing is he's my financial advisor. He takes care of a trust my dad left my kids when he died. This man has been through so much with me and knows my whole life. I do love him so much. And yes i would actually leave my husband for him. We've discussed this but i want him to REALLY want me and not question his marriage. As much as I care for him, that's his demon. He can't let go yet. But I can't judge him because look at my ridiculous life I'm hiding into