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Old Aug 05, 2006, 07:44 AM
Anonymous23
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welcome to pc jacq10.

im sorry to hear that you are unhappy. i agree with sky, shes a very good person to turn to if you need to.

the thing we have to remember about the human body and mind is that conciously we may feel we've "delt" with an isue we had, but sub-conciously we havent, and you cannot control or lie to your sub-concious. talking to councillors may not have helped you enough yet, have you tried looking for a councillor in your local area and going to them until you go to uni in spetember.

have you ever said how you feel about the divorce to your parents? are they aware of your unhappiness?

if you truly feel you have dealt with the divorce, there could be something else from your past or present that is slowly surfacing. it could be anything. has anything traumatic happened to you as a child, that you may have just pushed to the back of your mind? i ask this because often you find that one problem (the divorce) can trigger a previousl problem but because we think its the initial problem (the divorce) we miss the other issue. its about looking past the divorce for now, into your past and seeing if there is anything else that you have bot yet confronted.

dont feel you need to answer any of these questions to us if you dont want to, there is no pressure. it may be the fact that if you find an issue you may not want to talk about it, which is ok, because it shows you have accepted it and are now willing to deal with it.

feel free to pm me at any time, im here for a chat and im happy to help as much as i can.

once again, welcome to pc, and i hope you find all the help you need here.

take care jacq10. speak soon