His grandmother is his fathers mother but she is the one that got all the visitations as his father was too wrapped up in drugs. He has been very depressed this week. sleeping from the time he gets home from school until time for school the next day. I am having to keep a constant watch on him. If I am not, his older brother is. We are a very close family.
As for my boyfriends kids, their are 4 boys ages 14, 16, 18, and 20. The mother gave up custody and voungest was 6 months old. He has raised them alone. He is very lenient with them, where I am very strict with mine. His youngest stole some of my panties and had them in his room, I found them and all Faf said was keave her things alone. I was LIVID. My 20 year old wanted to take a belt to his back side.